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Grief Coaching · Marriage & Relationship Coaching · Life Coaching

Grief & Relationship Coaching for Life's Hardest Seasons

Helping women and men navigate loss, marriage struggles, relationship pain, divorce, and major life changes with clarity, support, and hope.

A Brighter You Ahead

"Grief is not a sign that something is wrong with you. It is a sign that you loved."

Deanna Farmer — grief coach and life coach in Bayfield, Colorado

About Deanna

A Guide Who Has Walked This Path

I'm Deanna, a certified life coach with a heart for helping people through grief, relationship struggles, and major life changes.

My path to coaching became deeply personal after losing my daughter, Shaniah, at just 13 years old. That loss changed every part of my life and taught me that grief doesn't follow a timeline, and healing doesn't mean forgetting the person you love.

Over the years, I've also learned how deeply marriage, relationships, heartbreak, boundaries, and family dynamics can affect every part of who we are. Sometimes we need support not because we are failing, but because we are carrying more than we know how to sort through on our own.

Today, I work with women and men who are grieving, struggling in their marriage or relationships, rebuilding after divorce or heartbreak, setting healthier boundaries, or trying to find themselves again after a difficult season.

My approach is compassionate, honest, and practical. I want you to feel heard, supported, and empowered to move forward in a way that feels true to you.

How We Work Together

Support That Meets You Where You Are

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Grief Coaching

Grief coaching is not therapy — it is a forward-focused partnership that honors your loss while helping you navigate the life that continues. Together, we create space for your grief and explore what a meaningful path forward looks like for you.

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Marriage & Relationship Coaching

Whether you're struggling in your marriage, navigating heartbreak, rebuilding after divorce, or working through difficult relationship patterns — this coaching helps you reconnect with your values, communicate more clearly, and find a path forward that feels true to who you are.

03

Life Coaching & Personal Development

Growth doesn't stop in grief or struggle — sometimes it deepens. Life coaching and personal development work helps you build resilience, cultivate self-compassion, and discover strengths you didn't know you had. This is about becoming more fully yourself.

"There can still be meaning, connection, love, and hope after life changes you."

Marriage & Relationship Coaching

When Love Gets Hard

Marriage and relationships are among the most meaningful — and most challenging — parts of life. When you feel disconnected from your partner, stuck in painful patterns, or trying to rebuild after betrayal or divorce, it can feel impossible to find your way forward alone.

Deanna works with individuals navigating marriage struggles, heartbreak, separation, and the long road of rebuilding — helping you find clarity, set healthier boundaries, and reconnect with who you are.

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Words from Clients

"Coaching helped me slow down and understand what was happening in my relationship. I learned ways to communicate more openly and feel heard. I'm grateful for Deanna's kindness and support."

Emily R.

Marriage & Relationship Coaching Client

"I came to coaching feeling disconnected and unsure how to move forward. Deanna helped me to look at things with more clarity and gave me practical ways to work on trust, communication, and connection."

Mark & Julie T.

Marriage & Relationship Coaching Clients

"Deanna gave me a compassionate place to talk about my grief without feeling rushed or judged. I felt understood, and our conversations helped me take things one step at a time."

Sarah M.

Grief Coaching Client

"Grief can feel lonely, but I didn't feel alone in my conversations with Deanna. She listened with care and helped me find small ways to keep moving through each day."

Rebecca L.

Grief Coaching Client

Deanna Farmer — grief and relationship coach

A Gentle First Step

A discovery call is simply a conversation — no pressure, no commitment. It's a chance to share where you are, ask questions, and feel whether working together is right for you.

"You are not alone in this."

Sessions available via video call. Based in Bayfield, CO.

Deanna Farmer Coaching

Grief coaching and personal development rooted in compassion, presence, and the healing power of the Colorado mountains.

Bayfield, CO

Ready to begin?

A free discovery call is the first step. There's no pressure — just a gentle conversation about where you are and where you'd like to go.

Book a Discovery Call

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A Brighter You Ahead